How do we discern what is right and what is wrong when there are so many gray areas? I recently corrected someone I thought was wrong ... really wrong. Now I feel badly about doing so. Was it right or wrong for me to correct this person? I "dressed down" someone whom I love, that I have known all my life, and who is 20+ years older than I.
We all make mistakes and anyone knowing me knows I have made a bundle in my life. Some are little mistakes, but some have bordered on huge. Many times I wish I could undo some things and do them a bit better, but hindsight is always more spot on than decisions we make when we are in the midst of something. Most big decisions I've made were based on the best information I had at the time and hopefully made the best (if not the right) choice.
My current dilemma deals with those emails that continue to be forwarded around in cyberspace. Someone comes up with some story that has either no bit of truth to it or only a modicum of truth and sends it until it circumnavigates the globe 5000 times. These topics generally denigrate one group of people while making sure the recipient of the email understands that if she does not pass it on to everyone on her email list she is not a "true American", does not believe in "the one true God", will have terrible luck brought down upon her, oh, and my personal favorite "you have no soul".
Below is the ending of the email ... the part that lets me know what a terrible person I am if I don't forward it on to everyone on my email list.
Good old American
Passive-Aggressive A$$ Whoopin!
Pass this along,
that we're all working together!
If you can read this.
Thank a teacher...
If you are reading it in English....
THANK A SOLDIER!!!
Who ever thought "passive-aggressive" was a good thing? Does this mean if I don't pass it along that I'm not working to make America better? Why are we tossing teachers into this fray? Why does the propagator of this think that this can be read in English because of a soldier? Soldier from where? Teacher from where? This ending offends me almost as much as the main text of the email did ... which I'm not going to put in my blog. If I added it here it would be much worse than forwarding it to the few people on my email. I did explain exactly how to check on snopes.com for the accuracy of the text. Hopefully these kind of emails will get checked in the future before they are sent out.Now to get off my soap box ... mind my own business ... think happy thoughts ... work in the yard ... and hope my friend forgives me for bringing to his attention that I think it is wrong to forward emails that are full of hate words.




