Photo is from 12/24/2005 near Terlingua, TX.
Christmas is over... It was a nice holiday visiting with friends & family here in Bastrop. Christmas Eve Gerald & I relaxed and did a few things around the house so we'd be ready for Christmas brunch with David, Judy, Josh, & Caitlan.
That evening we went to Don & B.J. Long's home for a little get-together from 5 to 7. The Long's really seem to love having their friends drop by even when they are having family members. Their house was decorated and was warm and cozy. Lots of family were there, but also friends from Colo Vista. We were supposed to go to the midnight service at the Episcopal church, but 10:30 rolled around & we were tired.
The Mitchells arrived around 11 AM for Christmas brunch and stayed until about 3 PM. We visited, ate, and played a game that Cait brought with them. It was a fun little card game that kept us entertained for a couple of hours while we visited & laughed.
Around 4 PM Gerald, Gertie, & I rode down to Pine Forest Golf Club to walk around along the river and look for birds. We didn't see anything too unusual, but had a lovely walk around and I got to try out my new binoculars.
I'm pretty glad Christmas is over. I can see why it can be a depressing time for people. There is so much that we look forward to ... so many expectations that we have ... and many times there is disappointment. I think we try to orchestrate the event and put too much pressure on ourselves in trying to make things "perfect" and our perfect may not be another person's perfect ... and vice versa.
I am so happy that I have Gerald with whom to spend these days. I tend to get a bit sad about the people who I can't see. Some of those people are dead ... others live very far away ... and others are involved with events in their own lives.
So that is why I'm relieved that the holiday season is winding down. Things will get back to normal and maybe I'll be able to see at least some of those people in 2008 that I haven't been able to see in a while. I am thankful that last January 2007 I was able to see my brother & sister-in-law in Georgia and my nephew and his family in Charleston, SC. I got a wonderful visit in with Paul in December '07 out in Nevada and am thankful that Margie is getting healthier and she & I got to go to the Armadillo Christmas Bazaar on opening day. I'll see her in a week or so.
Tomorrow there is a pre- New Year's Eve parade in downtown Bastrop that Gerald & I are looking forward to watching. Then there is a free mini-concert at the Hyatt at 7 PM which we may attend. It should be quite lovely. The big concert will be New Year's Eve but we plan to stay home that evening. Then New Year's Day we'll to the Christmas bird count for the local Audubon Society and have lunch at the Mitchell's home. Supposed to be a chilly day for being out counting birds ... it'll probably be in the 30's when we start... brrr.
One more week until the eve of Christmas. I've always liked Christmas eve ... perhaps we'll attend an evening service at the Episcopal church here in Bastrop or at St. James in Austin. I'd like to have a quiet little supper and attend a service. At St. James the choir will have some nice songs prior to the service as well as during services. I haven't been to the Episcopal church here in Bastrop, but I think they have a concert prior to the service.
We've invited David, Judy, Kaitlin, and Josh for Christmas brunch at 11:00 AM. That is another thing I like to do ... the brunch and not a full scale Christmas dinner. It is usually fun and pretty laid back. I'd like to do venison, but Gerald has opted for spiral-cut ham for the meat. I'll do bread & spinach dip, eggs, jambalaya grits, biscuit, Gerald's fruit plate, orange or cranberry juice, coffee, cookies & champagne. I hope it'll be fun.
Years ago I would cook Christmas eve dinner for 8 to 10 people and then we'd go to the service at St. James. On Christmas day we'd go to San Antonio for a wild game brunch at Kaki's. That usually was lots of fun. Of course we'd start with bloody Mary's and/or mimosas and munchies. The wild game consisted of venison (backstrap), quail, dove, and some of Pepi's wild chili. Of course there would be bacon, eggs, biscuit and cheese grits.
Before Tim Murray died the place could be WILD ... there was no telling what he'd come up with. Once he & Tommy Williams were black Santas and had there cute little elf-ete with black fishnet hose, a short flouncy red mini skirt and Santa hat. Too much. Of course there was drinking involved ... always ... and that's what killed him. Too bad.
Now I have a new family. It's mostly just me, Gerald, and Gertie; although, David and his family are Gerald's step family. All my family is on the east coast. After all these years I continue to be rather solitary.